Good Boy - Golden Rules.
Totals: 50.
Monday: 1-10
Tuesday : 10-20
Wednesday: 20-30
Thursday: 30-40
Friday: 40-50
Saturday:
Sunday:
1.Good boy always listen to Mummy Daddy & Older brother Ya Ya or Baiya. It very rewarding.
2.Good boy always behave
well. It's part of the Islam. Also Good boy do not make any unnecessary
noise joke with baiya or never run away behind him or when mum or dad
not front of him, do not make any noise or run behind baiya or touch
each other or start joke and kind of fighting etc. Good boy never talk
with baiya directly, incase if he does anything wrong. He knows that
the younger should not give instructions to the older. It's a rude.
Good boy always report the parents, when baiya do anything wrong or do
any mistakes, so that parents speak to the baiya.
3.Good boy never speak rude language or be rude at all. He knows Muslim does not allowed to speak in rude languages.
4.Good boy never listen
or follow rude friends at school. He knows that, if he be get around
with good boys, he will be good caracter and, it similler to living like
in the heaven. And if he follows or get around with bad boys, he will
be bed caracter or spoil.
5.Good boy always give Salaams to everyone. It like a praying for someone and very rewarding.
6.Good boy always go to
the School and study independently at home. He does minimum of at least
20 mins each subject according to the independent study daily
routing.He knows that children’s job is nothing but study. Child time is
golden time. So use it properly.
7.Good boy always listen
from mobile phone, when he has free time and learn Arabic, English,
Maths & Bangla etc. Listening and repeating is very easy. But it's
result is very good. He can learn without any efforts.
8.Good boy always try to
speak Bangla first then translate English at home. He knows that bangla
is his parents mother tongue and his second language. Also he knows
that, He is a British Bangladeshi. Bangladesh is his rute. He knows that
everyone in our family speak Bangla.
9.Good boy always eat
what Mummy give. Healthy food. Never complain or moan. He looks food
chart from kitchen doors behind, in order to get educated about healthy
life style. He knows that prevention is the better than cure.
10. Good boy always
listen & repeat Surah from mobile phone.and follow the simply
rules, listen - repeat - Learn. He knows that, now his brain is sharp.
Whatever he listen and repeat it, he can catch up very easily.
11.Good boy always give kiss and hug to Mummy Daddy and Baiya. He knows, he always loves and respect to older in his family.
12.Good boy always give attention to Mummy Daddy. Whe
13.Good boy always listen Islamic Music nashedds and make me genius and Arabic teacher from YouTube lesson.
14. Good boy always do home work and study at home himself independently with using time e.g 20 to 30 mins each subject.
15.Good boy always share
everything with older brother baiya mum and dad. When eat or other
things. He knows prophet used to share. It's very rewarding and good
practice.
16.Good boy never be rude with older brother Yaya Mummy Daddy or anyone.
17. Good boy always spell new words and make new sentences.
18.Good boy never disturb
to Ya Ya when he study. He knows baiya needs to concentrate very well.
Lots of books to study for gcse exam.
19.Good boy never shout or use rude Language. never talk shoutly with mum dad or baiya.
20.Good boy always listen to mummy when go outside.
21.Good boy always listen
to mummy and do not buy expensive toys.always think before spend, try
to save for future.Is it going to be useful. Only necessary thinks buy
it.
22.Good boy always pray
salah with Parents and always give full attention when praying. Never
laugh. Recite prayer and Surah with Arabic than translate to the English
meaning by head to concentrate the prayer.
23.Always eat more water
and less sweet drinks. Always choose 100% juice. Healthy brain gainers
food including fish and vegetables. Avoid junk foods.
24.Good boy never lie. Always speak the truth. He knows honest is the best policy.
25. Good bay always give full attention when study.
26. Good boy always repeat loudly when listening or studying and read with mind and head.
27.Good boy always listen when even playing. Try to repeat. He knows listening is the part of study.
28.Good boy always choose halal and health foods. Do not choose junk food.
29.Good boy never touch
or be rude to older brother. He knows that prophet Mohammed sallalaho
alaihe wasallam (MSAW) said a muslim should be respect to older and
love to the younger. It is part of the faith otherwise not part of
Islam. So Respect to the older and Learn from the older.
30. Good boy always
listen to mummy and Dady when they talk. He knows they talk about life
time practice / used skills ( LTPS or LTUS ). Never ever think that it
is rude or they are talking rude and never cry or hide the face etc.
Always listen positively and say inshaallah I will do.
31.Good boy always listen
parents and learn from it. He knows Allah says listen to respect to
your parents. He knows parents advice is the 100% best advice.
32. Good boy never try to
run away from Dad when he go anytime to pick him up from school. He
knows parents are always the same. Dad and mum both should be drop and
picked up when available.
33. Good boy always
listen all advice from Dady very positively and learn from it. It is
rewarding good deed. Always says inshaallah Dad, I will do. Never go to
the mum and say Dad talk to me rudely. He knows that It is a sinful
act.
34. Good boy always be
his own role model instead of friends or following to the friends. He
knows a role model should be following to the older persons
personality, e.g prophet Mohammed SAWS personality. Parents personality
, good Muslim Scholers personality etc.
35. Good boy always
choose friends who is a Muslim. He knows Muslim do not allowed to be
make a very close friend with non Muslim person. It is ok be a friend
with non Muslim person just like a class mates at school. He choose a
good Muslim friend who always pray, listen to Allah’s command, who fear
of Allaah. Also who never lie, cheat, swear, stealing, who is never be
rude with others or talk rudely with others. Also who is not naughty and
disrespectful.
36.Good boys always ask to his parents instead of his friends, if he have any questions.
37. Good boy always be
very proud when Dad go and picked him up or drop him sometimes at
school or tution. Never be sad or stay far away.
38.Good boy always
interested to learn new skills. Always stay ahead of the lessons an
advanced and revised his independent study.
39.Good boy always listen
to mummy and Dady at home or outside or any guest house. If anytime Dad
or Mum asked him to say e.g: give them remote controls or anything for
very important things. He always respect and understood and give it
to the mum and dad. He knows that listening and respecting to the
parents is very big rewards in Islam and Allah will be happy. He knows
that Not listing is very sinful act where Allah Subhanahu wa Taala is
not satisfied.
40.Good boys always be
very kind, humble , be patienceful, be polite, be positive, very
respectful, good good listener, never be cross with parents, never
debate or compete with parents, always be helpful with parent’s.
41.Good boy always be
very polite behave very well when go to any guest house, do not any
fighting, no push or pull with baiya, no serious joking etc.
42.Good boy knows that
when go to the any guest house, should give salaam, speak very nicely,
and answer very politely. Image if anyone comes to our home and not
behave well than how do we think.
43. Good boys always
behave very well when any guest coming to our home. Give Salaams, ask
questions very nicely how are you? Reply politely I am fine
alhamdulillah, take care of the guests. It's very rewarding which teach
by prophet Mohammed SAWS that look after the guest very well. When
comes to your home. Imaging if we go to the any guest house and if they
do not behave well than how do we fell.
44. Good boy never mind
when mum or dad tell him not to do anything which is unappropriate.
Never hide his face or be sad. It is sinful act. Should be proud and
listening to parents very happily. So always Listen happily - Learn good
habit - practice for the life.
45. Good boy never be
impolite big voice / Squicky sound with parents or argue with parents.
Always be kind listen carefully and speak with very kindness and very
softly.
46. Good boy always
communicate with Daddy or mummy instead of cry or getting sad, incase
mum or dad say or do something. Example; if Dad say to do any home work
or any request . Say very politely to Dad. I am finished my revetion
work and now is my free time for a little while. Remember communication
is the key.
47. Good boy always
listen and repeat the sweet listening work from mobile phone. Only
secret to the learning is the repeating with phone and learn very
easily. If you don't repeate than brain is shut off and cannot learn
anything. He knows when little boy that time brain is very sharp. So
the sharp brain try to keep on running by repeating and learn. Instead
of shut down the brain not repeating.
48. Good boy always
follow Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad SAWS, means when any relatives cones
to visit home. Give Salaams , Smile, be friendly and talk polity and
very nicely. Plus sit down with them and talk nicely. Never be rude or
go to the other room and hide etc. It's LTUS.
49. Good boy never be
angry with parents. When they are reminding him someting golden rules or
LTUS. Listening parents is very rewarding job. So always listen and
learn from the parents and practice the life time.
50. Good boy never make
annoyed or pick any fault from Baiya or Yaya. If mum or dad say anything
to Baiya, good boy never copy or repeating to the those words towards
older brother. Always respect and talk nicely and learn from oder
brother. If anything happend never touch. Report to the parents.Parents
have only right to talk.
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